Judi Dench, one of the most respected and beloved actors in the world, has spent decades delighting audiences with her incomparable talent, charismatic presence, and extraordinary ability to transform into a wide array of characters. But beyond the stage and screen, there is another side to Judi—a side that speaks volumes about her kindness, generosity, and love for life. Her fondness for animals is well-known, and many of her colleagues, friends, and even personal assistants have shared heartwarming stories that showcase her gentle, compassionate nature.
Judi’s love for animals began in her childhood, when her family’s home was filled with an abundance of pets. At one point, she had 14 cats and a dog, all living harmoniously under one roof. As a child, this experience instilled in Judi a deep appreciation for animals that would stay with her throughout her life. Over the years, Judi’s affection for her furry companions has become a defining characteristic of her personality, and anyone who has spent time with her can attest to her natural warmth towards all creatures.
I have had the privilege of meeting some of Judi’s beloved pets over the years. Among the most memorable was Lazarus, a robust goldfish whom Judi brought back to life with her own hands—giving the creature mouth-to-mouth in a desperate attempt to revive it. Amazingly, Lazarus survived and went on to live for many more years, much to the astonishment of those who witnessed the miraculous act. Alongside Lazarus, there was Pâté Lapin, a rabbit owned by Finty, Judi’s daughter, named in honour of the renowned singer Patti LuPone. Pâté Lapin was a creature of grace and elegance, and it was clear that Judi had a special bond with her, one that transcended the ordinary relationships we often form with our pets.
Then there was Lawford, a beautiful ragdoll cat with striking blue eyes. Lawford was no ordinary cat—he was devoted to Judi in a way that seemed almost human. He would follow her everywhere, always waiting for her by the gate and watching her intently as she went about her day. Lawford’s loyalty and affection were a reflection of the deep connection that Judi shares with all her pets. Even today, she speaks of him with the same fondness and love that one might reserve for a dear friend.
In more recent years, Judi has been the proud owner of a rather mischievous parrot named Sweetie. Sweetie is known for her potty mouth and vibrant personality, which includes a rather impressive collection of swear words, a filthy laugh, and the ability to replicate the sound of a champagne bottle being uncorked and poured. For Judi, Sweetie is a cherished companion, and their bond is evident in the way Judi speaks of her with such affection and joy. It’s not hard to imagine how Judi’s love for animals is reflected in the playful and spirited nature of her parrot. And as Judi often muses, it’s fascinating to think about how animals mirror their owners in such subtle, yet profound ways.
Bill Nighy, another actor who has had the privilege of working alongside Judi, has shared his own fond memories of her, highlighting not only her legendary talent but also her remarkable sense of humour and her down-to-earth personality. The two first met when they were cast together in a production of Anton Chekhov’s The Seagull at the National Theatre in 1994. Bill, who had a rather distinctive appearance at the time—clean-shaven and without a beard—was the only English actor in the play without one. Judi, who was playing the role of Arkadina, would run her finger down his chin every morning and look at him with a mixture of confusion and mild disappointment. “You need to grow a beard!” she would insist, much to Bill’s amusement.
It wasn’t long before Bill gave in to Judi’s wishes and grew a beard for the role. And while the production came to an end, Judi’s affection for Bill’s beard didn’t. Bill recalled a hilarious encounter years later when he grew another beard for a new role. This time, Judi, now unable to recognise him without the facial hair, began talking to the beard itself, asking it, “Where have you put Bill Nighy?” Bill’s story is just one of many that showcases Judi’s unique blend of generosity, wit, and warmth—a combination that has made her a cherished friend to many in the industry.
Ben Whishaw, another actor who has worked alongside Judi, shared his experience of working with her on Peter and Alice, a play by John Logan that was staged in 2013. Ben recalls how, during the first performance, Judi entered the stage amidst a roaring round of applause. But in the excitement of the moment, she forgot her lines. Rather than panicking, Judi simply looked at Ben, laughed, and ad-libbed her way through the scene, picking up the dialogue with ease and grace. Her ability to carry on without missing a beat left an indelible impression on Ben, who admired Judi’s calm confidence and her effortless ability to make even the most challenging situations feel light and joyful.
Ben also fondly remembers the quiet moments spent with Judi in her dressing room before each performance. While most actors are focused and silent before stepping on stage, Ben quickly realised that Judi’s approach was different. To her, being onstage and offstage were one and the same—she was always present, always engaged, and always ready to give her best. “Sock it to ’em,” she would say to him as they waited in the wings, offering a reassuring word of encouragement before he went on. Her generosity extended beyond her professional life, and Ben considers Judi to be “the best actor in the world” and a true genius of her craft.
Judi’s kindness and generosity are also reflected in her relationships with those who support her behind the scenes. Jenni Carvell, Judi’s personal assistant, has worked closely with her for over ten years, and their bond is one of deep trust and mutual respect. Jenni started her career as Judi’s dresser in the theatre, but over time, her role evolved, and she became Judi’s personal standby on film sets. These days, Jenni serves as Judi’s work PA, handling everything from film-related work to charity events. Judi often refers to Jenni as her “eyes,” and Jenni, always one step ahead, takes pride in ensuring that Judi has everything she needs, no matter where they are.
Jenni fondly recalls a particular moment during a film shoot in Borneo, where they were deep in the jungle. The camera crew had gone on ahead, leaving Judi and Jenni to wait for their turn. Out of the blue, Judi turned to Jenni and said, “Ooh, I’d love an Opal Fruit.” Without missing a beat, Jenni reached into her bag and handed her one, surprising Judi with her thoughtfulness. Judi was delighted, as she hadn’t expected the treat to appear in such a remote location. This moment was a perfect example of the care and attention to detail that Jenni has come to expect from her boss—someone who always looks out for those she loves and never fails to show appreciation.
Naomi Donne, a make-up artist who has worked with Judi on multiple Bond films, also spoke highly of Judi’s generosity, particularly towards animals. Naomi shared that Judi has always had a soft spot for animals, often spoiling her schnauzer, Stella, with treats despite Naomi’s best efforts to rein her in. On one occasion, when Naomi’s young daughter Isabella expressed a desire for a hamster, Judi took it upon herself to fulfil the wish, arriving with a large hamster cage filled with all the toys a young girl could possibly dream of. “It just sums Judi up,” Naomi said, “her generosity, her thoughtfulness, and her love of animals.” It’s clear that for Judi, no act of kindness is too small, and no gesture too insignificant when it comes to making the lives of those she cares about a little brighter.
Judi’s love for animals, combined with her extraordinary talent and her ability to connect with those around her, makes her a truly remarkable person. Whether she is on stage, on set, or at home, her warmth and generosity shine through, leaving an indelible impact on all who cross her path. In a recent Financial Times article, it was noted that Judi’s exceptional career is matched only by her incredible spirit—a spirit that touches the lives of both her peers and those who work with her, time and time again. Judi Dench is not only one of the finest actresses of our time, but also a person whose heart and soul enrich the lives of everyone she encounters.
